You are saying with a straight face that you asked 22 men why they think women are leaving the dating pool in droves? Snort! The reason I'm skeptical is not because it's totally easy to do such a poll, but because men mostly don't care what actual women think about anything whatsoever. They'd prefer to circulate Manosphere bullshit and Red Pill "knowledge" rather than engage with human women and with reality. Your response is further proof of this.
Plus, the author was writing about her own experiences and feelings about those experiences and you opined that “most men don’t think like that.” How can they have anything relevant to say about somebody else’s personal experieces? Most men think this women doesn’t understand her own life? Really??? 🙄