You began your comment with "I don't know" which implies you don't agree with the sentiments laid out in the essay - that everyone is entitled to body autonomy. Having been sexually assaulted before - more than once - I can imagine that it was pretty unpleasant for you and I certainly don't condone that. I just didn't understand what you were saying. Don't get mad at me for not understanding your obtuse comment that begins with a phrase commonly used to disparage or undermine what someone else has said.