You did - by making belligerent comments about this story - an essay that repeatedly mentions that he cares about all human suffering, just not in the context of a false narrative that men are lonelier than anyone else. Also you did, by continually asking me if I'm male.

Most of the other men who made snarky comments did the same. If their pain is no longer centered and prioritized, it's open season on the person who dared to point out that this is a false narrative - one that minimizes the pain of women and others - something you rather apparently don't give a flip about because only your pain counts. 🙄