You had one experience in your entire life, as a young white guy in a bar in Harlem. That's like me complaining that I went to a biker bar and is not remotely like just riding the subway, or minding your business at work - which is where most women get groped. Give me a fucking break...

And no, unless you are a Chippendale, women you don't know or who you meet in professional situations are not commenting on whether the size of your penis affects your ability to do your work and be seen as a professional.

These sorts of lies as deflection are really just pitiful. Give it a rest...