You honestly think that is a sane or reasonable response? 🤦‍♀️ The fact that it is possible for women to be abusers has no bearing on the facts of this particular case so that's not an actual rebuttal. Demonizing or attacking people for things they didn't say is lame and so is failing to debate the actual question at hand.

Additionally, there are two different types of domestic violence - intimate terrorism and situational couple violence. Neither one is acceptable, but overwhelmingly domestic terrorism (which is about control) is perpetrated by men against women. Situational couple violence is when couples disagree and it escalates into physicality. Again, that's not a good thing, but no-one is saying that it is.

And since you can't seem to talk about the facts, stick to the point, behave rationally, or take responsibility for being unneccessarily unkind to someone who was reliving a traumatic period of her life, I'm going to quit here.