You know full well what the difference is between a marginalized population (and none is more marginalize than Black women) having its own space and place to talk about their lives and White men having that. And if you don’t, you have no business pretending that you are helping Black communities and peoples for anything other than your own aggrandizement.
And beyond that, what right have you to tell Black women how they should discuss their experience, in what venues and under what circumstances? What right have you to tell anyone at all about how they should express themselves? Seriously, I don’t know why I even keep trying to talk about this? If it doesn’t make sense to you already, it never will.