You said, "Oh, & the fact that outside of her commercial success, men know Travis could do better." - that's the statement of a man who loathes powerful women. Swift is talented, beautiful, intelligent, kind, generous, loyal, and just about any positive accolade one can imagine. How exactly could Travis "do better"? Aside from the fact that it's nobody else's business who he wants to date (or she wants to date), by all accounts, he actively pursued her, so giving some lame excuse about how it's OK to hate on her because he could somehow do better is pathetic.
And, as I noted in my OP, if football fans are tired of seeing her featured at games, they should take it up with the team and the NFL - because they are making hundreds of millions of dollars off of doing that. Swift would prefer to be left alone to just enjoy the game and support her man, so once again, complaining about her is pathetic and misogynistic when she's not the one asking for or driving the coverage. It's fine to express a desire that the NFL and the team not show her so much, but that's not what's happening. The hatred is directed at her for something she didn't want, didn't do, and has no control over. M-I-S-O-G-O-N-Y — the desire for a woman who appears to be “out of her lane” and taking up too much space in the world to get back into her small box where she “belongs.”
Edit: In addition to all of that, MAGA types are making up outrageous lies about how she’s a “Pentagon asset” and how she’s going to rig the game so that she can endorse Biden during the half-time show. It’s craziness and what happens when patriarchal men fear women who have power.