You want to continue to let other people, most of whom you don't know, tell you who and how you are supposed to be as a man and as a human being? Why?? Because that's what the Man Box is - a small and very constrictive set of rules for who you are allowed to be.

Nobody is asking you to change who you naturally are, but you don't actually know who that person is because you've been indoctrinated since birth into who you are supposed to be. Have you ever been called a pussy or a fag? Have you ever been told you were acting like a girl? Why do you want to participate in a social system that is shame based, that is control based, that curtails your actual individuality to force you to be who they think you ought to be? It's nonsensical that so many guys cling to this.