You were the one blaming her (or did you conveniently forget that?). I’m just asking for him to take responsibility for himself so that they can actually communicate. That’s what I’ve said several times. He is the one who is avoiding communication but in the face of him avoiding communication and self-responsibility you are telling her that wanting what she wants is selfish and wrong — that’s blame right there. Helloooooo!

I’m now done talking about this. You keep trying to put words in my mouth and are too caught up in your own emotions to be able to have any kind of clear conversation.