Your comment makes no sense in the context of this story. I've had a good man for 35 years, as I talked about extensively. As also noted, lots of good men find me in other contexts very regularly, but so do a lot of really not so good ones. In fact, I spend a part of nearly every day having to fend off, tell off, or otherwise manage the onslaught of not so good men who constantly belittle and harass me and other women.