You’re making my point for me. This stuff is learned - stop teaching it. The only thing I’m “demanding” is that people recognize that this behavior is learned and that therefore it is not inevitable. We can try to do differently, we can try to do better and understanding what leads to actual better relationships is entirely possible. I’m simply countering false narratives about what women want. Women file for 70% of divorces and this dynamic is part of the reason why. Continuing to feed men bullshit that is actually destructive to relationships isn’t helping anyone.