You've got to be fucking kidding me! That's the most intelligent thing you can think of to say? Would you expect a gay man or an Orthodox Jew to provide a whole bunch of citations for a story about the way that they live their life?

I'm polyamorous. I live this stuff every day and it's an intrinsic part of my personal knowledge base. If you believe that any of what I've said is incorrect, you are more than welcome to look it up but it isn't as if any of this stuff is in dispute.