You've repeatedly said that it's a zero-sum construct (which by definition means someone has to lose so that someone else can win - it's a term that comes out of Game Theory). The whole notion of who has it better (or worse) is that kind of thinking and you've constantly brought the conversation back to that place of "Yeah, but who has it worse in this scenario" even though that is not what privilege is about at all. So yes, I'm getting a little bit frustrated because you can't even keep track of what you've actually said.